Two years ago my friend's husband walked out on her leaving her alone with 2 young kids (7 & 9 I think they were). My friend hadn't worked for years and all of a sudden she was thrown into a world of:
No financial support.
No emotional support.
No idea how to live her life independently.
.................All she knew was............................. she had to provide for her kids ........................... or else end up on the Jeremy Kyle Show?!!
Two years later, she's in a new relationship.
OK - I'm not going to rant!!!!!
I really do not understand how women manage to do this??!!
I'm attractive, intelligent, don't have nearly as much baggage as most people my age, and yet I'm still single.
Don't get me wrong - I like being single. ........................But that's not the point?!
How is it that all these women who apparently are distraught at the end of their relationships, (have zillions of kids in tow )
My friend has been ' in a relationship' for a few months. To me a few months is not really that long.
To my friend - it's long enough to introduce him to her kids, long enough to go on holiday with him, long enough to start including him in her long term plans????
Maybe I'm just cynical???
And maybe that's why I haven't got a man???
This is something I've thought about long & hard. If I knew what I wanted from a man I'd just write a list and sign up to a dating agency. I'm sure that's what loads of people do. I know that if I really wanted to find a man I could. All I'd have to do is key in the qualities that I was looking for and 'hey presto' I'd probably have at least 10 dates next week.
Unfortunately I still believe in charisma ..................... and there lies the problem???
.................And that's probably why I'm still single ............................... and loving it. LOL!!!
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